1.服務端listen成功后，系統就自動接收客戶端請求了

man listen:

其中有一段

The  behavior of the backlog argument on TCP sockets changed with Linux
       2.2.  Now it specifies the  queue  length  for  completely  established
       sockets  waiting  to  be  accepted, instead of the number of incomplete
       connection requests.  The maximum length of the  queue  for  incomplete
       sockets  can be set using /proc/sys/net/ipv4/tcp_max_syn_backlog.  When
       syncookies are enabled there is no logical maximum length and this set